Your Mom called last night, around 8 pm, she told me that she had been having the beginnings of contractions all day. Then she said that she was going to go swimming, (floating like a hippo she called it) before heading home for the evening, she planned to sleep all night, to have energy to bring you into the world today. I was so excited, I was so looking forward to meeting you. And today? I got to. You were born this barely afternoon, and we already have great stories circulating about your birth. Here I sit, writing this, less than 12 hours after you came into this world.
You see, my lil bro and your Mom, invited your Grandma and I over to see you at 6:30, about 6 hours after you were born. I got there first, and as I hesitantly entered your home, I heard your Mom say, “Your Auntie is here to meet you, Your Aunt Jaime.” I took off my shoes, set down my camera and keys, and walked into your parent’s bedroom.
There you were, all bundled in a yellow receiving blanket, close to both of your parents, one on each side of you. You are perfect. Ten little fingers, ten little toes, a rosebud mouth, blonde with a slight red tinge to your hair. You were so new, so precious, I was slightly afraid to touch you, so much perfection, I didn’t want to spoil it. Then one of your feet escaped its blanket, and I reached out to you, and touched your foot. I was in awe.
Then Grandma the Firecracker came, oh B-love, she was so moved to meet you. I made room for her to get to you, and she reached out for your hand as tears of joy sprang into her eyes. She looked into your face, and laughed with joy. She gently pulled away your blanket, and started making sure that you had all the right bits, she just wanted to hold you close to her heart, so that you might hear how much she loved you. Every ounce of Grandma’s being was focused on you. She was talking to you, telling you how loved you were, remarking on your beauty, and weeping tears of bliss. You tried to open your eyes to see her, but there was sunlight pouring in, I lifted a hand to shade your eyes, and you looked into your Grandma’s eyes. Wow, she is fascinating, you just couldn’t stop looking at her, well, except when you were yawning.
You opened your perfect little rosebud mouth, and yawned at us. Grandma and I both leaned down to look into your mouth, lol, instinct I guess. A perfect little tongue arched out, and completed the signs of tiredness. A beautiful gullet if I ever saw one.
Your Dad and I went out into the living room, he was trying to set up your crib, and I thought I might be able to help. We got it mostly figured out, then realized we had forgotten some sort of liner, that went under the mattress, held it up for your Mom to explain, and went back to work. I helped my brother make the bed you are lying in tonight, and I love that.
Your Mom had to excuse herself, leaving you and Grandma in the bedroom alone. My brother and I brought in the sidecar bed, and Grandma told us that we were in the way. So Grandma picked you up, while my brother and I set up your bed. She moved out into the living room while we got the straps adjusted and tight, holding you in her arms. When we all moved out into the living room, Grandma wouldn’t give you up, she insisted I help her stand while she still held you.
Do you know how much you are loved? I bet you can feel it.
Then your Dad took you into his lap, he was relaxed and easy with you, wanting to be close to you, and to hold you, to see you. There have been few times in my life when I have seen my brother so focused on one person, he loves you so much. It was wonderful to see.
Mom leaned over and told me that Dad wanted to know if I would run to the RB drive in to get him some fries and 2 special sauces. I told her of course I would, and asked if we needed anything else. Grandma left, wanting to respect your need to be together as a fledgling family, but not without reluctance B-love. I decided to run my errands at the same time, turns out I ran for Iodine first, and to RB’s second.
When I got back to your house, it was just me, your Mom, your Dad and you. Your Mom handed you over to me, and I was scared, because despite my years of caring for children, I had never met anyone so new to the world as you were. When I held you, you were 7 ½ hours old. Oh how my heart filled.
I held you for a long while, before I began my inspection. I talked to you, watched your face, and felt the weight of you. You have no eyelashes, at least that I can see. Your fingernails and toenails are the size of a tiny nail head. You make mewing sounds, and Mom says you have a set of lungs on you, announcing yourself while you were still coming into the world. You have a sweet little rosebud mouth, and the cutest chin to set it off. You are crowned with a head of thick enough, but not overbearing blonde/slightly red hair. You have a little whirl in your hair on the back of your head, and a little whirl just on your forehead. I think I might have seen the start of a freckle on your chest, just where I have one.
Oh, and I know this story will haunt you, but it brought so much joy to me not to share. You had your first, ummm . . .organic movement in my arms, when I was holding you. You might think “disgusting”, but I thought how wonderful, she is so healthy, so alive! Mom and I went to go change your very first diaper, and we must have used about 15 wipes to clean you up, working as a team; and oh how glad I was to be there, doing that for you. I warned you that I might not be as excited about future organic movements, but thanked you for being there for the first one.
In your first 12 hours, we have learned so much. You just need us there, and when we are, all is good in the world. Laundry will become a prevalent chore, which is cool, we can handle that. You have a burning curiosity about what is going on around you, and we will do the best we can to expand your horizons.
There are thunderclouds rolling overhead, lighting, and gentle rain tonight. My favorite weather.
Welcome to the light B-love, and know you are so precious to this family. I am so happy to have you in my life, we are going to be buddies, and I am looking forward to the adventure.
You are now 12 hours and 45 minutes new.